I know, I know. There are a TON of dating advice out there, especially on the internet, from books to dating coaches. But honestly, most of it is nonsense and more importantly, it isn’t really practical. So let me give you some advice on dating which are both practical and things that can be applied right away.
Eye contact
If you are a human being, living on earth, you have probably heard of the importance of eye contact. Well, let me say it again: Eye contact is extremely important! You can tell everything by looking at someone’s eyes. This is especially true for women, because women can generally pick up social cues faster than any man can.
So make sure you have solid eye contact. Make sure it’s laser focused eye contact, but you also want to look away from time to time or it’ll seem really creepy. You can also tell if a girl is into you, when her pupils dilate. When the black part of her eyes expand, it means that she is interested, so it might be time to make your move.
Body Language
Another subtle, but important concept is the use of body language. By looking at your body language, it is the fastest way of accessing your personality. You can literally tell a person’s personality in seconds, by looking at their body language and eye contact. Also, body language shows what your subconscious personality is, because you aren’t always 100% aware of your body language.
So how do you make use of good body language? One thing that a lot of people do but are unaware of, is slouching. You need to always make sure that you are not slouching, whether you are sitting down or standing up. Always sit up and make your back straight, and when you are standing pull your shoulders back and tilt your head up. You never, ever want to be looking at the ground! Only look if you need to look at where you are walking, but other than that, you should never do it.
Body language also shows how confident a person is. If you are taking up a lot of space, it can show that you are pretty confident. However, don’t try to take too much room, because you are just overcompensating and trying to show off and girls can tell this pretty quickly. Also, your confidence should show in the way you walk. Instead of taking short steps, try taking longer strides. Not only will you walk faster, you’ll convey more confidence in this small change.
More resources
These are just some of the ways in which you can improve your dating, and maybe land you a girlfriend. However, there are a ton of information online to help you accelerate this process. One such resource is the girlfriend activation program. It is a step by step guide on how you can get yourself a girlfriend as well as becoming a better person. So I hope you found value in this article and I wish you the best in finding your soulmate.
